Our BDSM is wrapped into our lives. This means it includes tenderness as well as rules, romance as well as discipline. It is a delicate balance, though Sir and I enjoy walking that tightrope.
It is another layer of awareness of each other. There is an on-going negotiation. I enjoy listening for that slight change in tone that means we’re playing.
With winter comes more colds. Daily maintenance is A) not safe when one or both of us is loopy, and B) hard to do when you feel craptastic. What does maintenance become? In our house, it becomes me getting drinks and food. It is snuggling on the sofa, watching terrible movies. It is taking comfort in the circle of Sir’s arms.
I like this too.