“That’s not a request,” Sir wrote on his note to me. I am being ordered to take it easy today–and it is difficult. There are many things that I should be doing.
The way our BDSM fits into our lives is organic. There is negotiation, but it seems to go on all the time. I know that by doing the dishes, keeping Sir comfortable, little household tasks; I am also acting out our dynamic.
Falling into and out of scenes is organic. I can tell by a slight tone is Sir’s voice–particularly when we are out with friends or in public–that it is go time. I am being told to serve.
It is very nice.