It is summer in these parts. It has been so warm that my sex life has been one purely of imagination and reading. Which makes writing about them difficult. Even in fantasy mode, it is difficult to write about impact play, bondage, and other games because I am distracted by the warmth and heat. Normally, […]

It is warm today. I can feel the slow crawl of the beads of sweat as they roll down my skin. Sir has decided against the house collar. I wear only my day collar; its slight weight a reminder of Sir’s care for me. I kneel in my spot, on a mat to save my […]

It’s Hot

It is really warm out. Summer has finally reached our cloudy shores. I kneel on the mat in my spot. I am naked except for a house collar. My arms are lightly bound behind me. The breeze from the oscillating fan is a welcome relief from the sweat sliding down my skin. “Close your eyes,” […]


Sir is on another business trip. Short, but busy. My tasks? Last week it was oiling and smoothing the paddle that Sir made for me. This week, it is cleaning and maintenance on his favourite pocket knife. Both were done, as well as texting requests for permission to remove the house collar as I ran […]

Sir is Coming Home

Today is busy. I asked for permission to remove the house collar for a trip to the shops. When I finished that, the front lawn and its alarming dandelion population explosion needed mowing. Then a shower. Ahhh. Shower. After my shower, I asked Sir what his preference would be for today’s house collar. He said […]

A Day Late

…And several dollars short. Sir is out of town this week, on business. The whole dom-at-a-distance is an extension of our regular lives, but it seems to make some mental difference to me. As though there is some higher measure of submission in obeying from afar. I don’t know. I know that he is busy. […]


I have PornHub on in the background. Just the sounds from’s San Francisco Armory/porn studio/community center moaning and yelling (Bonus sounds of whips and chains and vibrators!) interspersed with begging and “Yes, Sirs!”, “Please may I come, Sirs?!” ┬áIt is kind of hot. We pay so much attention to the visual titillation of porn. […]